Communicating with our children
Promoting dialogue and communication has become a key priority in the education process of our children. Establish channels of sincere and respectful dialogue will allow us to participate actively in the various stages of development.
We must banish from our lives, and especially the relationship with our children, fear or embarrassment to express feelings freely and naturally.
To enhance the dialogue between the family members I propose a simple game. On a blackboard placed in a visible place in our kitchen will mark the names of each family member, giving each one two columns for each day of the week. In one of the columns appear the words BEST and WORST in the other.
Dinner is usually the best time of day to develop this activity, let alone television, music and distraction trying to create a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere in which we share with our children the events of the day.
The game is to tell our family the best and the worst thing that happened during the day. We will take turns scoring on the board a brief summary that can be a word or drawing, depending on the age of small, representing this situation.
It is essential that parents be involved in the game, at first, while our children to internalize a part of the routine of dinner, you should be the adults who are started at the same, this is a fun time, and our voice and our gestures and so should be seen. That our children participate in a great measure depend on the illusion that we can pass on to develop the activity.
If we get your mind relating the dialogue with conflict resolution, we have given our children a cornerstone for its present and future happiness.
Saturday, 29 August 2009
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